The type of men women seek
Through her life experiences she begins to understand what she
must have in a man. Some look for it in handsome men, some in
popular men. She must have that feeling. But through a process of
trial and error, including disappointment and despair, she begins to
understand what she doesn’t want in a man. Like that guy who
cheated on her, or that guy who was too much of a marshmallow.
If she meets a man who is exciting, she finds that he is reckless. So
she looks for a man who is considerate, but he becomes boring. So
she goes with a man who is macho, but he ends up being
uninteresting. So she seeks a man who is intelligent, but he is
sexually bland. So she takes a man who is dominant, but he is in
every way demanding.
If she could only meet a man who had all the things that could
make her feel what she needed to feel. A man who is exciting without
being reckless, considerate without being boring, macho without
being uninteresting, intelligent without being bland, and dominant
without being demanding. That sounds like a contradiction. But it’s
not. A man does not have to be reckless to be exciting, and he does
not have to be boring to be considerate. But most men don’t
understand that. Which is why women say….
